Thanks everyone who has been replying on my thread. As I've finally reached 100 posts in this one, I've made a new one here:

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2808147&#Post2808147

M: 40 W: 37
T: 20 MR: 13
S13, S9, S4
BD: 1/29/18
Sep: 4/23/18 (I moved out)
8/24/18 I come home, she moves out

If you want to get out of the hole, drop the shovel.