Our sitches are very similar with us both moving out in January to appease her request for time and space. Then no change with W consistently saying it's over for all this time. I think I realised that well, if it's going to be over then I have nothing to lose by moving back home and spending what time I have left with my kids there. I sort of stopped caring about what she was saying and started making decisions for my own benefit.
Despite what I replied to you on my thread earlier, it has given her plenty of time to see my changes, that they are permanent and haven't been made to win her back. 2 weeks in and she has finally started to relax more with the situation. I had great advice from Sandi about not fighting for the MBR and choosing what hill to die on.
You could always downplay it, state that it's temporary and then not leave. That's pretty much what I have done, officially it's temporary, but I have no plans to leave again. Luckily I didn't have to bring up the legality of it, I think that would have got her back up. You know what sort of reaction to expect because you have already advised me well.
I hope whatever you choose to do, works out for you bro.
LBH 47 WW 47, M 15 T 18 D 11 S 14 BD, I moved out (duped) Jan 18 3 yr EA with ex-H discovered: Feb 18 I moved back in: Aug 18 (against her wishes) ...No R No M/C, continued limbo, dropping the rope!
