Hairdog,
Does she really equate being generous to her husband with being subservient to him, or were you joshing us?

I find that attitude mind boggling, if she does. I am generous to my husband and yet he would laugh his ass off at the notion of me being subservient.

P.S. How are things with your kids, man? You left us hanging with that one. I've been thinking of them..

Honey