That's a crazy story Steve. My W basically strung me along (before i could prove A), while she built a long term relationship with OM. Shes so deep in that R now i dont think theres any turning back.

She must really feal justification through those comments/accusations. They come up like clockwork if you spend any time around her. For the most part ive been really good at not falling into those convos and just validating her feelings when needed. I realize its not the time to "state my case" as to defending myself or making things better etc.


Together:20 years
M:3 years
Me:40
WW:40
S15
A suspected:5/17
AC:5/18
BD:8/18
WW in full blown R w/ OM
Still under same roof