I have to monitor the GW messages for a few days to gauge whether W will appreciate receiving them
Geez, I'll put $100 down that she wouldn't appreciate it at all. The one thing I'm learning from counseling and PM and (now) experience is that it's all about us. If you want to subscribe to the Generous Husband to learn how to be a better husband, then that's great. But don't make suggestions to W about it. It only shows that YOU think she's got a problem which is much different than creating an environment where she sees how her own issues are affecting the relationship. She may ask you for help and then you could recommend it, but I (as of 2 weeks ago) would never drop hints, send links etc. Just my 2 cents.
-Dave (who is laughing at himself for sounding like he has a clue)
Anywhere is walking distance if you have the time
-Steven Wright
