D@mn right it's hard, her friends, family everyone knows she has not been the same person since the A began. 10 years ago I shook her so hard it seemed easy to break her free but this one is harder. The AP was actually her dealer at first and made contact more convenient and he is is a bad marriage as well but won't leave. I'm hoping the police or something else will get her as I expect her to relapse at some point.

All I can do is keep doing me and taking care of my kids, it's hard but her not wanting to be around is making it easier. I know she has issues resisting me and that is why she is staying away completely. My therapist said I need to 100% avoid when she is in emotional distress. When do you determine when to accept them?


H-50
W-48
T-19
M -18
S23, S14
BD - 5/9/2018
OM discovered 5/10/2018

In house sep - 8/18/2018
Rope drop 2/15/2019
R'ing since 3/15/2019