An update. The nastiness is increasing and I have lost my cool a few times. W ignoring me and speaking to others as if I’m not there. “I love the house but I need a new partner”. Booking up her social schedule so I cannot go out unless I get babysitters. Changing her plans on purpose. “Go f*** yourself” when a parenting plan was mentioned and I said I didn’t want to be the one doing it as I was against this whole thing. Then this morning found our wedding photos etc in the skip with the building waste. How can someone be so evil and hurtful to their spouse and the father of their children? Spoke with a L and basically said it’s going to take ages, be very acrimonious and expensive. I wonder what joys she has in store for me this evening? I think I’m through.