As part of my recent efforts to be a better, more pleasant, more understanding wife I joined a mailing list called "The Generous Wife". I receive daily e-mail tips about things I can do to/for/with my hubby to make him happier and help make our marriage stronger. Most of them are pretty good and things I *can* apply, but today's was a real doozy! I thought you all might appreciate it - LOL:

"Saturday is for LIGHTING UP THE NIGHT SKY. Be the initiator. I know it can be a little rough, but a guy wants to know that he is wanted too. Say or do something to get across your intent. Invite him into the bedroom, tell him you like his stuff, start a make out session on the couch, or just show up at his elbow in the buff. He'll get the idea."

At least I am giggling (rather than fuming) about what H's reaction would be if I were to do any of this. That's progress on my part, right???