She looked very sluggish and old . She was wearing what I would refer to her black fat jeans and a sports bra. W has never been a obese woman during our R but in this case I could see some unsightly rolls. Her hair just blah- not what I would consider attractive. I would not date someone like this now.
That might be deliberate because she doesn't want you to get any false ideas. She'd make a real effort to look good if she wanted you back.
