I think you're doing a really nice job of straddling that fine line between trying to keep some connection to the m and focusing on you.


And yes, ignore her moods and any antics. Make sure you do a few things each day that bring you joy.

Keep up the good work.

Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13
BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself
BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room"
8/15: H back to MBR
10/15: H back in dorm room
1/18: H files, now divorced