I found what your s said to be very endearing. I could hear that he has that same kindness you have in you! Your value is not measured by your bank account and your s knows it.
So pleased to hear the wedding was so nice. And it's so nice to hear an update.
Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13 BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room" 8/15: H back to MBR 10/15: H back in dorm room 1/18: H files, now divorced