Well i did leave it be, but she brought it up again. She brought out a few more 'details' about this 3 week EA. Basically saying how stupid it was, how she wasn't thinking about anything, and how she's glad it got discovered when it did to 'snap her out of it' and prevent the possibility of it going any further. The more I listened, the more pissed I got. I tried keeping my cool, but I said something like 'i just have no trust for you now, and i never thought i'd have to worry about something like this, especially with a derelict like that.'. She said she doesn't blame me, and she never expected it either, but it 'just happened'. She said not trusting her makes her question about working it out. lmao. I mean, seriously? I told her if trust ever comes back, it's gonna take a long time. She agreed.
She still claims it's over with OM, and she's sorry about everything, and realizes how selfish and stupid she was.
Man all I can think about is beating the living [censored] out of OM.
If anyone can lead Sandi to my thread I'd really appreciate her take on this.
Married: 15yrs Ages: Me 49, W 44 Kids: S12 BD: around 4/14
