Well just had a brief convo. More based around her family and a situation they're dealing with. She brought up how my family has been ignoring her (I wasn't aware they were). She said that whatever we decide to do, all of our families need to get along for our sons sake. I agreed. She said it'll be awkward if we do work it out.

Me: "so now you're thinking about working it out?"
Her: "i don't think I ever said that was off the table. It's just very complicated".

Should I press farther or leave it be?

Married: 15yrs
Ages: Me 49, W 44
Kids: S12
BD: around 4/14