are you still doing the in house separation thing? I ask b/c that's the way it looks from your sigline. If so, I wouldn't plan on her coming with you. You need to plan your life. Maybe she'll choose to be a part of it, but maybe not.
The old saying is "don't make someone a priority when they only see you as an option".
She is selfish, wouldn't make time for her own son. Don't have any expectations that she'll do the right thing.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
