-don't move out of your bed, she's wants out? She can get out? -don't sleep with her, she's having an affair. Have some respect for yourself. -why is it all about her? She has hurt you in the worst way possible and you are there for her? I didn't read that she is truly remorseful for her action and has taken steps in the direction of marriage -read about boundaries. Do you really feel comfortable "trying" with her while she continues her affair? This means you are willing to be in an open marriage. -actions speak louder than words. Easier for me to say than for you to see for yourself, but you'll get better in time.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.