I'm curious... why do you think that finding a HD/HD match is as rare as winning the lottery? Both Lucy and Cathy seem to have found partners who are HD after leaving their LDHs. I (also formerly a HDW) have as well.
It looks like all 3 of us won the "lottery". Do you think that HD women are in a better position (excuse the pun) to find a HD partner than HD men? Or perhaps finding a HD/HD match isn't all that uncommon...
