BS alert.... I never called YOU lazy and I'm sorry you took it that way. If you re-read the sentence I'm calling "the position" which you seem to be advocating as lazy. Big difference. Example, I might be a very hard working, righteous person who won the lottery but it would be wrong for me to tell people to stop working because they might win the lottery. I'm saying that people should work harder because it's highly unlikely that they will win the lottery. See the difference yet. This was not an attack on you.
Your post really sounded like you were telling us to "have faith" and be hopeful that there's a great life outside your current marriage". Am I wrong? By stating this you aren't exactly advocating that people do the hard work of looking inwards and really work on themselves and their relationships, thus exhausting every possibility before calling it quits. Yes, the split would also be hard. I still assert that you're blessed in your relationship and I never made any assumption about anything else in your life.
Take a deep breath.
Anywhere is walking distance if you have the time
-Steven Wright
