Lucy, I'm really happy that you are so happy but if everything is so great, then what are you doing on this site besides telling a bunch of people to give up on their marriages?

I think it's is a very rare occurrence to have a match like yours "happen" and I'm only countering to explain that it's not as simple as divorcing your partner, then finding an HD partner and then living happily ever after. I have to draw attention to the fact that you got lucky and it's given you the ability to reverse-engineer your situation into something that seems "simple" because in your sitch, it was. It would be like me winning $1M on a slot machine and telling everyone to quit their jobs, cash out their 401Ks and go to Vegas because it was so easy..."I just dropped a dollar in a slot machine and won $1M dollars."

Don't get me wrong about your lifestyle, I would love it if my W were into it. But I think we are all trying to exhaust every last possibility before we do something that drastic and lazy.






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