Gordie. I just wanted to congratulate you on the date. Not because it is a sign of your situation turning/improving (though it is memories like that which can lead to that. No I commend you for being able to put your best shoe forward after a week of low quality interactions.

You could easily of been spiteful and either rejected the offer in a non DB manner or you could have harboured negative thoughts throughout the night which would have impacted ye both negatively.

So fair dues to you. That shows character.

I will add though that you don't have to accept any date offers if you don't want to.


I may not be around much for another while, but I will be thinking of you. Best wishes


R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together