OK here goes first post... pt 3

[bhappy2]

David, Hope you are doing better, may I ask if you could please speak in more specific terms, it seems like you are generalizing things which makes it much more difficult to give you advice.

You say you are going to seek a councelor/phychologist I think this is a great start. Please do not hold back when you are asked questions, it is designed to help you and you should not feel embarrassed by answering honesty. This is the time to let it out and develop a plan to address any and all issues. It sorts out the issues and identifies appropriate methods of dealing and correcting.

Still have not seen where you actually sat down with a Lawyer/Solictor to discuss the legal issues. You need to do this asap, as you have been given this advice before. Seperate your finances immediately, do not let her take all of your money.

As far as GAL, join something with other people, walking is good but you need to interact with friends and make new friends. You will be surprised how many people out there are really friendly and nice, and will go out of their way to include you.

Please put a signature on your thread so we know better about your sitch...

Remember DBing is to help you, R is just the bonus if she decides she wants back into your life.

Peace.....