"No healthy couple would steal money from each other."
I've never done that. W is doing so in prep for D.
I didn't know at the time but 2 years ago W helped her parents to buy a house and that is the house W has moved into. I now know for a fact that the plan was to keep that house for only 2 years. W eventually told me of the money tied in that house and that it would be sold to help pay for a bigger house for us, so we started looking for a bigger house.
W has been under a lot of pressure with exam failures, work changes etc. and she's now gone to an easy life being looked after by her parents where they do everything at home for her and she has no responsibilites. They even look after the kids for her. It's an easy option and has probably been on her mind for ages.
Part of me thinks your not fully present in your mind. You have all these reasons why she did this.. and why she did that.. and what she might do.. etc..
When its clear she wants another life without you in it. Why cant you accept that and move.on?
This is the 3rd time you have been asked this and we still dont have an answer... is english your first language?
When you post moving forward dont mention your wife and talk about you and what you are doing because there are alot of people noticing the same patterns going round and round and round here.
You keep mentioning how good you now look and how people tell you compliments - if so, why are we still talking wife and same things?
Start D proceedings and tell us about you without mentioning her.
