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Don't misunderstand my anecdote. I wasn't terribly promiscuous as a teenager, I just wanted to be.




OK, I had misunderstood. It seemed clear that you wanted to be, and I had assumed too much.

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I am now wondering why I feel the need to be so defensive when accused of promiscuity.




Not meant as an accusation. I apologize if it came across that way.

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The old double standard sword seems to be hanging over my neck quite oppressively! Maybe you need to ask yourself if you didn't get exactly what you were looking for when you picked yourself out a LD wife.




I seem to really have gotten on your nerves. Sorry! But I can assure you that I wasn't looking for a woman who was subdued about sex. I'm not afraid of women's sexuality - except that I'd like other women's sexuality to stay far away from me while we're struggling in our marriage like this.

Jonathan


HD Male, married 20 years, 3 daughters