"No healthy couple would steal money from each other."

I've never done that. W is doing so in prep for D.

I didn't know at the time but 2 years ago W helped her parents to buy a house and that is the house W has moved into. I now know for a fact that the plan was to keep that house for only 2 years. W eventually told me of the money tied in that house and that it would be sold to help pay for a bigger house for us, so we started looking for a bigger house.

W has been under a lot of pressure with exam failures, work changes etc. and she's now gone to an easy life being looked after by her parents where they do everything at home for her and she has no responsibilites. They even look after the kids for her. It's an easy option and has probably been on her mind for ages.