I guess some of the assumptions I made were as follows:
1) Women mature sexually quite a bit earlier than men, by 16 women have been considered to be of marrying age in most human societies.
2) The vast majority of women are subject to visual stimulation but many are in denial. There was a study done where women volunteers were hooked up to electrodes and shown a variety of erotic movies. There was little difference in the level of measurable physical arousal between women who claimed to not be affected by the movies and those who admitted they were.
P.S.
Don't misunderstand my anecdote. I wasn't terribly promiscuous as a teenager, I just wanted to be. I am 5'9'' and I could have easily passed for 21 when I was 14. Also, I had the highest SAT scores in my high school. I rarely got asked out until college when the boys finally caught up. In high school all I got was frequent obscene phone calls.
P.P.S.
I am now wondering why I feel the need to be so defensive when accused of promiscuity. The old double standard sword seems to be hanging over my neck quite oppressively! Maybe you need to ask yourself if you didn't get exactly what you were looking for when you picked yourself out a LD wife.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver