H.....IMO meeting sooner the better. I just gone done chatting with a girl for a week and we met on Thursday........we had great texting convo but wasn’t what I expected when she walked through the door.
I think you meet asap and determine if there is mutual attraction. If not then game over, if there is then IMO you can explore it further. Remember back before OLD people met in bars, or wherever. They saw the person first and then got to know them and wouldn’t even approach someone if they weren’t attracted. OLD kind of puts the cart before the horse so for me I prefer to meet asap.