Go back into your last post and think about the actions and words that worked and what didn't work.
When you made a suggestion of starting small, she had no response. Maybe she will eventually, but for now, that doesn't seem to have worked.
Saying you're fighting for the marriage and don't want to be enemies let's her know she still has you right where she wants you. And by that I mean you are the backup plan.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
