Yes, I'm sure you're right. I've been very "driven" for a long time, though for much of that time (the Early Years) had no W to share the drive with. Now that I do, it's frustrating that she is so much less interested in sex than I am. Also, I think attitudes passed down by parents play a role. For instance, maybe Anne-Marie's mother told her "penises are grotesque", just as my W's mother might/must have told her "Don't touch yourself there" or "Don't let anyone see you there"!
