If you click on his name you can then click on "see all posts" and go back to the beginning and look at his thread. There is a whole forum on "piecing" or reconciling, and there are tons of stories there.
Long story short, there are a number of success stories, but the vast majority of relationships are not reconciled. The WAS simply might not ever come back, or the LBS might decide that they have made the changes in their lives and don't want them back any more. The hard part is realizing that both of those outcomes are okay, and can be considered successful if you make the internal shifts that you need to in your life.
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W 34 Me 42 Married 7 years together 8 0 kids 1 beloved dog BD 4/6/2018 I moved out 4/7/2018 I moved back in alone 8/05/2018 I file 3/06/2019 D official 5/7/2019