I'm really surprised.

One guy responded. He said that I should fess up.

Three women responded. NONE of them thought I should fess up.

I'm a guy. I agreed with the other guy. Is this really something that falls out along gender lines? Can anyone explain this a little more? Is it that women feel they would be so shattered by it that they would rather not know?

I like to know what the facts are. If my wife cheated on me, I would want to know.

Meaculpa