"Do feel like were just roommates" there's that roommate word that I heard.
Now I get that no MR should be that, but any MR with young children will have times where it may feel like that especially in your case where you have 4 children? I would never want to have an MR that was truly just roommates, but with working and then chasing around children when not at work...its easy to take a negative perspective and say "we're roommates", but you could just as easily take the positive perspective of work and family keeps us on the go, but we love each other and we'll keep working to make time for just the two of us.
That is a poison word for MRs and I think it's a perspective that WWs use as justification for their actions...a selfish, negative one relative to the truth of their everyday life. AND you probably couldn't have been happier with that everyday life unknowing how she felt.
