Hello everyone, I need some help with my situation. I’ve been married for 5 years (no kids together, just three wonderful stepchildren). I want to save my marriage. I know what I did to cause her to break up (my attitude) This was a little over two months ago. I moved out at her request to stay with a friend about 2 weeks ago. After 2 days at the friends house, she said I could come back and stay in the extra bedroom until I found a more permanent place. So I did. But tonight she said I need to hurry up because the situation makes her uncomfortable and she wants me to disappear. She says that she doesn’t love me anymore and no chance of ever getting back together. And that if she had money she would file for divorce now. For these two weeks I’ve been doing 180s and GAL and detaching but tonight I messed up and was almost begging. It’s been ups and downs. Last Sunday I invited her and the kids to breakfast and she accepted, then her and I went to the mall for a few hours. Afterwords I had to work for a few hours but I sent her a message saying that I had a great time and she responded that she did too. But other then that, really not much contact until tonight. I would never try to repair this marriage if I wasn’t sure I could make the change (honestly I feel like in the last month I haven’t slipped up once). About 3 years ago we had some issues and I moved out for 5 months. As soon as I moved out, I begged and pleaded and she told me the same thing (she doesn’t love me anymore and never getting back together). I used the techniques here and 3 months later she started to open up to me and slowly things got better so I moved back and things were great. Now I feel as though I’ve lost her forever and I can accept that but I’d really like to try to keep my family together. I am afraid this time I’ve run out of chances. Would me moving out and going completely dark help or completely ruin my chances? Thank you everyone for your support.
