You got that right B, the WAS helps the LBS with their detachment in some ways. It just feels like there is a gun held to your head and you are forced to fall out of love, give up on your future dreams and MR and move on with life all in just a few months. it is forced detachment. I would not worry too much about D, it will happen or it wont. It is a legal document at the end of the day, would any of us be better off with our spouses the way they are right now? Be strong and thank god you have your D3. You have so much to look forward to with her in your future life.