You keep telling her that you don't want to be friends? You just typed that. But, you respond all the time, as a friend.
At this point she has no reason to divorce you. You pay her bills. Talk whenever she wants. Texts whenever she wants. React whenever she wants. FaceTime whenever she wants, oh wait - that's for for the daughter, right? <insert sarcasm>
I bet my entire paycheck that you couldn't go 2 days without some sort of contact. And I'm broke so I wouldn't put my money down unless it's a sure this.
Ok enough being mean "loves". But seriously, I'm gonna be honest. I'm not sure that you are getting better. This chick just played the hell out of you. Basically to make sure that she has you in her pocket. And you fell for it.