I had a great day out with the kids today. We didn't do anything that W had suggested. Eldest kid says they feel pressurised by W into saying they don't want to stay overnight with me. Youngest doesn't care at all what W says about it and tells W they want to stay.
W came to collect the kids and entered the house. Kids were ready to leave but W then spent quite a while looking through the kids clothes. W sat next to me on one of the kids beds. She was entering my personal space zone. I didn't react.
The kids asked if they could stay overnight with me. W said only the youngest could. W then agreed both kids could stay. W then asked to speak to eldest on her own to talk about it and said "You can trust me" I couldn't help but let out a little laugh and I said we should talk to the kids together at which point W said she wouldn't let eldest stay... but then W said they could both stay Sunday (which is probably when she has plans). I said not Sunday as I have plans.
It seems that W has now accepted that I will have the kids for 2 weeks staying overnight. W has offered to come to the house on the first night to help the kids pack. I didn't respond.
Kids and her are due to go to something tomorrow. W said not tomorrow but we could go to other things together. I didn't respond.
W was in the house for about an hour. I was going to walk to a local shop and W asked if I wanted a lift in the car as she was also going to the shop. Afterwards, W offered to drive me back home but I declined and walked back.
