Jesus, I've must have read 100 threads on here with WWs or WAWs. Aside from Sandi, are there any actual success stories of the W's returning and the marriage working? Seriously, and I pray nobody takes offense to this, but DBing, detaching, pursuing, begging, etc. None of it seems to work. I realize DB is about 'you', not 'her'. But does this 'marathon' ever actually work?

I'd love to read even a few 'success' stories.


Married: 15yrs
Ages: Me 49, W 44
Kids: S12
BD: around 4/14