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So today, being older and a bit wiser, you wife will probably figure things out on her own. So, I guess just suck it up and spill the beans and take whats coming to you. She may leave, she may stay. I don't know her.




I'm not convinced that she would have figured it out on her own, but I am convinced that I can't keep a secret like that from her without building the kind of wall that I don't want in our relationship.

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So, I guess just suck it up and spill the beans and take whats coming to you. She may leave, she may stay. I don't know her.




Precisely. It's very risky.

Meaculpa