In a text exchange today, wife mentioned she now feels awkward with me. She was referring to my changes. She mentions that there are many things I didn't do when she was in love with me, but I started doing them now while she is no longer in love with me.
I thought these are my 180s. I started to become more affectionate and more positive. I started caring more about her feelings and paying attention to holidays, etc. But she feels awkward and doesn't know what to say to me. It's like I am suddenly a stranger now. Most because I changed my behavior a lot. I am complete lost!
Keep DBing. It doesn't matter what she says. It's more likely than not a GOOD thing that she's feeling "awkward" or uncomfortable. Don't backslide on your positive changes and 180s. Be consistent!
M: 40 W: 37 T: 20 MR: 13 S13, S9, S4 BD: 1/29/18 Sep: 4/23/18 (I moved out) 8/24/18 I come home, she moves out
If you want to get out of the hole, drop the shovel.
