Oh I didn't see that last post about Sandi. The difference is WAW knows full well that I am NOT at her beck and call. she knows I make zero effort to communicate with her. She knows I can go weeks, months without talking to her. She knows have a bust social life. So if my WAW is sitting at home grinning and saying to herself..."yeah he can't resist me" then she's an idiot. She had zero reason to think that...and going forward with my plan of no meetups, she'll see that even more clearly.
ME: 43 W:44 M 13 years on 5-5-01 T 18 years BD 4/27/14 D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date) WAW moved out 5/12/14 Papers filed 6/27/14 Divorce granted 07/17/14 Our marriage ends 11/17/14