In a text exchange today, wife mentioned she now feels awkward with me. She was referring to my changes. She mentions that there are many things I didn't do when she was in love with me, but I started doing them now while she is no longer in love with me.

I thought these are my 180s. I started to become more affectionate and more positive. I started caring more about her feelings and paying attention to holidays, etc. But she feels awkward and doesn't know what to say to me. It's like I am suddenly a stranger now. Most because I changed my behavior a lot. I am complete lost!


H: 31 W:31
M: 6 T: 10
S: 4
BD: 12/2017
In house separation: 12/2017