Originally Posted by Did
I will do as you say Sandi and minimal contact. You think I have to just ignore her?


The rule of thumb is sometimes reply right away, sometimes an hour later, sometimes not at all. Why? Because you're not ignoring her, you are just too busy living an awesome life to bother replying all the time.

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Its Fn crazy to me. I went out last night and a woman literally sent me a shot. Another group of women were married and are trying to set me up with their single model friend. And my wife I have kids with isnt attracted.


Last night I was over at my ex's house to drop off my son and brought my dog in. My son was holding his dog and XW's was next to her. She says "isn't it funny how our dogs are all like us, S's is chill and laid back like him, yours is solid and muscular and strong like you and mine is fluffy like me." LOL! A month or so ago I was over there picking up S and came out of the garage and overheard her telling her pastor neighbor in front of the house "no he's my ex, but he's really amazing, he's a wonderful man!" So your wife may very well see you as a good looking, attractive, awesome man but she STILL doesn't want to be married to you. Who knows why. The good news is other women see it too and some of them don't want to just be friends grin


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57