I'm just going to take a moment here and say that sometimes WAS's have VERY serious mental issues behind their behavior and personally I think that something like this is not pursuit, it's genuine concern for her well-being. Now you do have to be careful that it's not just some ploy to get attention that you're catering to, but if you genuinely think she's suicidal or such then don't sit back. There was a guy on here many years ago whose WAS left him and continued to spin out of control, a classic case of her leaving because she thought he was the problem only to find that SHE was the problem. He came back after being gone a while and reported that she had killed herself. There was another man here whose wife called and ranted and raved that she was going to kill herself and she was going to come over to his house. He felt it was an attention grab but he did EXACTLY the right thing, called the police and they met her in front of his house and hospitalized her. What I'm saying is don't try to fix her yourself, but don't ignore warning signs and be ready to call for help if you think it's needed.
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She answered, and all I did was just ask if she was okay. She said yes, why?
That's an odd response from her.
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At this point, I'm expecting anything from her coming home and saying she wants to R, to wants to D, to she had an A last night.
You missed the most likely outcome of all- she won't say a word and will act like it never happened. WAS's do stuff like this ALL THE TIME- cry, say they want to talk and then just seemingly forget about it. Don't ask her if she wants to talk about "last night", if she brings it up then it's fine to listen and validate but don't be surprised if she says nothing.
