Well, you goofed. Hmm tuff situation. In the past I would not have said a word to my wife. I would have gotten tested for stuff and kept that secret the grave. I mean 1) the woman would have left me and 2) if not she'd either hold it over my head or worse.... get even.
So today, being older and a bit wiser, you wife will probably figure things out on her own. So, I guess just suck it up and spill the beans and take whats coming to you. She may leave, she may stay. I don't know her. IMHO
