DB / Detach, WAW... piecing

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I told her Im not interested in being just friends multiple times. I dont think she is hearing me or she just doesnt care. I will do as you say Sandi and minimal contact. You think I have to just ignore her? Its Fn crazy to me. I went out last night and a woman literally sent me a shot. Another group of women were married and are trying to set me up with their single model friend. And my wife I have kids with isnt attracted.

I have been giving 1-3 word responses as few as possible except talking schedule with D3. She has been sending pictures and I dont respond. Last night she told me she was dealing w D3 blah blah blah I said good luck.... she says thank you have a good night. I said thanks you too. Then she said thanks for not ignoring me. I said youre welcome.

I did talk to a DB coach on a call months ago who said if you cant be her friend first youll never get to be her husband. Trying to play that fine line....

I guess we are going to do cake and a small birthday party at my house. W is going to come Mon, D3 birthday and give balloons and have cake. Im going to be pleasant but distant. No more pursuit. As little contact as possible, no conversations started by me.... pulling further away.