IDK, seems all so covert and manipulative. Is this what you would do with a new woman that showed some interest. Or would you just say "Hey, tonight XYZ band is playing at the State Theatre. Would you like to go see them, maybe catch a bite to eat before the show?"

Or would you wait for her to ask "can we hang out tonight?" before asking.

Obviously this is all uncharted territory for me. I've never divorced then years later tried for R. Maybe your approach is right and as I've said before now that I am older I am just more forward.

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018