Hey guys,
Yeah I can see how these texts would get cumbersome for me after time. When they do I will shut it down. Right now, for whatever reason, I just don't think on it too much. I guess right now my plan is to allow these texts as a means to keep the line of communication open so that I can be the alpha and push for the date the next time she wants to hang out. I figured if I ignored her yesterday, that would probably only induce silence. I need her to ask to hang out again at which time I will propose dinner and a band. I once read of a "false friendship" back when the bomb drop was relatively new to me and I was reading about saving my marriage...in fact it was around the time I found this site, ordered Michelle's book, and started my journey. That's kind of what I am doing here...fostering a false friendship as my "in." Then I exploit that slowly to push for dates. So basically this friendship is a guise, for me, to keep the lines of communication open for now until I reach the point where she rejects me. Then at that point I go dark and vanish...and she won't be wondering why, she'll know why.

Having said this I can feel it coming...she's going to try and initiate a meet up this weekend as soon as I reply to her car question. I could be wrong, but it's a feeling I have. So my date proposal may happen sooner here rather than later.

Last edited by ItHurts; 08/17/18 04:20 PM.
ME: 43 W:44
M 13 years on 5-5-01
T 18 years
BD 4/27/14
D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date)
WAW moved out 5/12/14
Papers filed 6/27/14
Divorce granted 07/17/14
Our marriage ends 11/17/14