You might be right Steve, perhaps there is some hope, but if there is it is buried really deep and doesn't much affect me. I come to this forum because it is where I know people and people know me, and I have received a lot of support here, plus there is a lot more traffic here. Honestly, I have been feeling more resentment towards the W since I let go more, but I don't think I'll ever get to the place where I am bitching about what a jerk she is. I don't need that negativity in my life, and also other than dumping my arse, she hasn't really been a jerk.

I don't know that everyone needs to give up hope to detach. In my case I find that they go hand in hand.

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W 34 Me 42
Married 7 years together 8
0 kids 1 beloved dog
BD 4/6/2018
I moved out 4/7/2018
I moved back in alone 8/05/2018
I file 3/06/2019
D official 5/7/2019