I picked up or S last night. Came home, did homework, made dinner, etc.
About 5:30 W sends a text that she's going to be working late, doesn't know exactly when she'll be done, and to do dinner without her if it gets too late. I don't respond since it wasn't a question that needed answering.
8:00 rolls around, and she sends another text saying she's still there. Again, I don't respond.
12:38 a.m., I get the following two texts from her:
[Quote=]I'm ok, probably staying out tonight. But I'm ok.
Originally Posted by ]Broke down, crying too much to realize that last message didn't send. I'm ok, just freaked out and needed time away. I'll be there tomorrow, I'm calling out[/quote
I called her immediately after (I know, pursuit). She answered, and all I did was just ask if she was okay. She said yes, why? I said I just want to be sure you're okay since you said you were freaked out and crying. She said she was, and asked if we could discuss it today. I said that was fine and ended the call. I know I pursued her there, but it's hard to shut off the husband caring about his wife's well-being mentality when she says she's freaked out and crying.
This is extremely out of character for her, especially not coming home to see our S at least this morning. Even further is her calling out of work today, since she takes her job so seriously as a manager, and is clinging to this job as a lifeline in the event we D (her words, not mine).
At this point, I'm expecting anything from her coming home and saying she wants to R, to wants to D, to she had an A last night.
Yep, I agree. Keep us up-to-date.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
