Don´t give the book to your W T!. The book is for your own growth. She is not at the state of mind for reading that things. And the changes you are doing by applying DBing are going to be seen by her as imposted and not natural. Keep all of these things only for you: books and forum posts. Top secret material.
Thanks Nef. But again, the DR book, at least where I'm at in it, is all about positive stories of R, setting goals to achieve R, approaches to achieve the goals, etc. Like, it seems it's a perfect book for a couple to read together, or for that WAS to read. I know, or at least I think she's not at that point. And due to that, is it kinda pointless for me to be reading it, because detaching and following the book seem completely opposite techniques.
Maybe I should have ordered DB instead of DR? lol
Married: 15yrs Ages: Me 49, W 44 Kids: S12 BD: around 4/14
