Yeah. I think I do. He hasn't mentioned separation today. I have tried not to talk about it. I only mentioned something once and he gave me a response that did not answer my question.
I as offered a job. Idk how I feel about it. On the one hand, it would add to my skill set, it's closer to home, doesn't involve tolls on the drive, and there's a very clear path to advancement. On the other hand the PTO is total crap compared to what I'm used to and it appears they have standard 50 hr work week. I still need to carefully examine the benefits. I'm not totally sold on the position. It doesn't really excited me, but it would hit the mark as far as a closer drive and it gets me into a more managerial role. They also said they'd be interested in promoting me in 6 months. IDK. I have to think about it. The reviews online have said no work/life balance. That is huge for me.
H is supportive of it. Idk. He says that the reason he's unhappy doesn't have to do with how much I have been gone, but when he complains about me, it's bc he thinks I don't do enough. I can't win w him. And yes incapable of saying what he does want. He only knows how to fuss.
