Your posts kill me, everything you do has to be a fight with someone to prove yourself right. One post not long ago I seen some honest reflection where you focused on you and your issues. That's where you need to be, unfortunately it left as fast as it came.

I find it ironic how you justify your blunt and aggressive communication style due to...wait for it...someone being blunt with you! Oh the irony, you attack everyone for doing exactly what you do and then rationalize it as having a backbone.

No one can say anything that you feel is an attack, but when they claim you're doing it you rationalize it and dismiss their thoughts and feelings away.

No one dare assume anything about you, yet you assume about our intentions and many, many things about your ex. In fact, I believe you know with 100% certainty something that happens behind your EX's closed doors when you hadn't communicated with her in weeks.

Is it worth it always being right? Honestly, the more I read the more I see narcissism.

And for what its worth, since I seen a glimpse of the pain and guy you can be peak through I am sorry you have to deal with all of this pain, I know it's not fair what happened with your ex.

Unfortunately, you push people away from your threads not because they want to control you and fail but because you just come across as a self righteous [censored]. People get tired of trying to help someone who continues to one up them and tell them they're wrong. Remember that real comment about always trying to get the last word in and feeling the need to explain yourself? ffs find that place again and do some soul searching, theres so much growth for you there!

Many of us have been where you are and are only trying to show you areas to work on that will help you through this. because we actually care... for you and your child. Ive successfully coparented with my ex for a few years now and had experienced with many of the things you are now facing. I've experienced om and om2, I know the frustration of being powerless against someone who has ripped your heart out for another man and seems to win everything, who seems to experience no consequences of their actions. Ginger has been managing all of this for almost a decade now and has dealt with far more than you can ever imagine.

Accept what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what will be